Journey of Self Love

One-month, 1-to-1 transformational program for queer men ready to reclaim their authentic self and love their whole Self: body, mind, and soul

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Do you never quite feel “enough” in your relationships or career?

Is your quality of life suffering from low self-esteem and a lack of self-worth?

Are you often entangled in patterns of self-sabotage, people-pleasing, or disparaging self-talk?

At the root of these patterns is a lack of Self Love.
Self Love is the foundation of healthy relationships and connection to the world around us,
yet most of us were never taught how to love ourselves.

But love is a biological and psychological need for human beings.

So we move through the world seeking love outside of ourselves, conforming to others’ desires and expectations.
It’s a one-way ticket to losing ourselves, sacrificing authenticity, and ending up in loneliness and heartache.

You want to feel at home in your body and in the world.

I help queer men return to that belonging—in a clear, guided process.

I know how tender this work can be

I hold a steady, non-judgmental container and guide you step-by-step.
Trained in Somatic Breathwork (Soma+IQ), Psychospiritual Hypnotherapy, and psychedelic-assisted facilitation training (MAPS / Johns Hopkins), I move at your nervous system’s pace

“My biggest “a ha!” moment was discovering how much I’ve abandoned myself by trying to please others constantly... even after years of self work. Through this mentorship, I’ve realized I can make small changes to start seeing the effects of self-love in the way I show up for myself and how I show up for others. The work resonated with me in a way I could understand and implement through daily action to build momentum in my journey. ”

— Elias, NYC

How It Works

Intake. Map your patterns and intentions.
Regulate & Rewire. Weekly breathwork, shame alchemy, self talk / self narrative re-framing, weekly challenges/assignments, and daily nervous-system practices
Integrate with a practical action plan that anchors in self-acceptance, self-worth, and ultimately Self Love.

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Self Love is our birthright.

But too often we block ourselves from it due to childhood trauma, toxic past relationships, adolescent emotional woundings, and other energetic residue from our past.

This residue lives not only in our mind, but in the body too.

The Journey of Self Love works on the level of the mind and body—to clear these old stuck emotions and stories, and shift you into a state of choosing love and choosing your Self.

queer men self love transformational coaching program

Program & Tuition

The recommended pacing is to complete all sessions in 4-8 weeks, as your schedule allows

Intro (:60) // Overview, the Principles of Self Love, Somatic awareness practice
Cultivating Wholeness: the Four Facets of Love (:60)
Somatic Breathwork Ceremony (:90)
Shame Alchemy Session (:60) // together we bring light to the shadow of shame, opening mind & body to more love
Inner Critic + Self-Talk Work (:60)
Self Worth Workshop (:90) // a deep-dive on the mechanics of building Self Worth
Soul Empowerment Therapy (:90) // rewiring limiting beliefs around love and “enoughness”
Integration & Embodiment Session (:60)

Plus:

Daily voice message support, by request/as needed (via Telegram app, available weekdays)
Guided meditations, breathing, and practices for nervous system regulation and cultivating Self-Compassion and Self Love
Educational resources, “homework” assignments, and interactive journalwork between sessions

Tuition

Option 1: $550 per week (for 4 weeks)

Option 2: $2000 one-time payment

*Access matters. If finances are the only barrier, email me with a short note about your situation; a limited number of adjusted-rate spots are available each quarter.

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“Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be? Your playing small does not serve the world. We were born to make manifest the glory of the universe that is within us. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.”

—Marianne Williamson, American author, spiritual leader, and political activist

What clients are saying

"I had never received coaching before, so there were many unknowns. I just knew I wanted to feel good in my body and in my life… I don't mean to sound extreme, but it changed my life. I learned what I value, how to balance structure with spontaneity, and how to love myself. I found out that loving myself is both an ambient state of being, and a collection of actions, and Jonathan helped guide me to a place of self-compassion and resilience that has permeated throughout all my experiences and relationships."

~Alex C, 33 • Dallas, TX
Insta: @alexander_the_pecibel
"Admittedly, I was skeptical… Before working with Jonathan, I was caught in a pattern of isolation and unmet needs. My anxiety kept me from meaningfully engaging with others sexually, and I over-indulged in porn as a compensation. The non-judgemental atmosphere created by Jonathan helped me be vulnerable, and all of the resources he provided helped me see my struggles from a different perspective that really motivated me to change. I have noticed increased confidence and self-worth and all around presence in the moment… I am now able to see my own worth and value."

~Drew, 33 • Denver, CO
"I found myself in a stagnant place. I was feeling depressed, unmotivated, tired, and confused. It is hard to seek out help. It can make you feel vulnerable and weak, but Jonathan made me feel strong for taking that step. Because of that, I felt immediately comfortable with him, making it very easy to share my thoughts and feelings. He asked questions until he completely understood what I was going through… I felt he really cared about me and what I was going through. In working with Jonathan I was able to define specific and productive actions to implement traction. I started feeling energized and successful. More energy. More focus. More happiness.

Rick A • Brighton, CO
Insta: @rickarrick
"Before working with Jonathan, I felt parts of me from within were falling out of place. I sought him out at a time in my life when I believed I was at my worst emotionally… after I had been through a devastating family loss in 2021. The loss of a parent left me questioning everything about who I was, my purpose in life, friendships, relationships, career… Jonathan helped me pick up the broken parts to show me how beautiful they can be. He guided me through each session with such care and devotion and helped me realize what stood in my way from achieving personal greatness. He is kind hearted and always works with your best intentions at heart. I continue to practice the Soul Path journey almost everyday and it has provided me a way to center myself and mind amidst everyday challenges. I am able to do this because of him and cannot wait to work with him more. Jonathan is a true gift to the world."

-Anonymous, 38 • Broomfield, CO

Making the Shifts

If nothing changes, the loops keep running. Self-sabotage, people-pleasing, shrinking ourselves to fit in, the constant feeling of “not enough,” conspire to drain your life force energy.

What shifts after the Journey of Self Love:

You relate to yourself with compassion and clarity
You hold boundaries rooted in your values and show up authentically
You move through the world from Self Love—energized, connected to self, others, and the world around you