Queer Soul Coaching
Monthly 1:1 coaching for gay, bi, & queer masculines
Queer brother, I see you.
I, like you, came into this world a queer soul in a male body.
If you’re reading this, most likely you, like me, were wounded by this world. Perhaps by the very ones who were supposed to love and protect you in this life.
If you’re like me, you were shamed for who you love and how you love.
If you believe, as I do, that love is why we’re here, then this is a direct trauma to the soul.
But have heart, my queer brother. At the core of this wound, there is a treasure.
The impossibly unique gift you came here to bring into the world.
If you’re open to it, I humbly offer a hand on the journey to uncovering your soul gift.
“Wherever there is a ruin, there is hope for treasure — why do you not seek the treasure of the divine in the wasted heart?”
When we're seized by shame, we don't want to be seen by anyone.
But retreating from the world makes us lonely.
And so we swipe. We scroll. We pour our longing for real intimacy into porn, into apps, into one more hookup or video that might finally hit the spot.
It never does.
We're left emptier than before—our minds warped by unrealistic bodies and performances that have nothing to do with actual love. Our life force drained. The shame heavier than ever.
What your heart is really longing for, is Love.
Perhaps you're in a loving relationship. Perhaps you've been in one before. But until you fully love yourself—all of your parts, even and especially the wounded ones—a kind of low-grade loneliness will persist. And quietly create problems in even your closest connections.
"Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself."
— Carl Jung
I know this territory. I've lived it.
I'm Jonathan. Soul Guide, Somatic Breathwork Facilitator, Psychospiritual Hypnotherapist, Ecotherapist.
I spent the first 21 years of my life in the closet. I know the particular exhaustion of feigning straightness. I know what the hiding does to a body, a psyche, a nervous system — because I felt it in my own being. The numbing with substances. Size shame. Performance anxiety. Porn addiction spirals. The decades of spiteful self-talk.
I also know what's on the other side. Freedom. To be yourself. To be kind to yourself and others. The freedom to choose love over fear, in any moment.
That freedom exists for you. I am convinced of it. The very wound you've been carrying holds the key.
“The wound is where the light enters you.”
~Rumi
As your guide, I vow to meet you where you’re at, and tailor the elements and practices to your unique challenges and gifts.
~Jonathan
“My biggest “a ha!” moment was discovering how much I’ve abandoned myself by trying to please others constantly... even after years of self work. Through this mentorship, I’ve realized I can make small changes to start seeing the effects of self-love in the way I show up for myself and how I show up for others. The work resonated with me in a way I could understand and implement through daily action to build momentum in my journey. ”
Here's how we begin
1. Apply Fill out a short application. Tell me where you are and what you're carrying. I read every one myself.
2. Discovery Call If it feels like a fit, we meet—no pressure, no performance required. Two people feeling into whether this is the right fit for working together.
3. Begin Two 75-minute sessions a month, text check-in support between them, and a living relationship oriented toward one thing: finding your way to the gifts at the core of you.
The Core Work
✦ Two [2] Soul Guiding sessions per month (:75)
✦ Available text check-in between sessions
$450 / month*
The Deep Work
✦ Two [2] Soul Guiding sessions per month (:75)
✦ Plus, a focused Deep Dive session each month (:90-120, including Somatic Shame Alchemy, Soulcentric Breathwork or Soul Empowerment Therapy)
✦ Voice note check-ins, up to 30 min / month
$750 / month
Not sure which is right for you? We'll figure it out together on the Discovery Call.
*I keep one rate-adjusted spot available each month at $350 for those who find cost to be a barrier.
“For those who are ready, I humbly guide you through the precipitous and wondrous territories of your psyche, to the centerpoint of your being, your soul.
Through compassionate witnessing — and an unwavering trust in your innate somatic intelligence, unique expression, and resilience-against-all-odds to choose love again, and again — I am able to help you reclaim your wholeness; that wholeness that is your birthright, at the center of your being.
I look forward to being that friendly face and helping hand, on the difficult and winding path home to yourself.”
— Jonathan
This world has only
Two true directions:
Towards and away.
The big fear, in the end,
is to awake and find that
You chose away.
That the hand
Which held you down
Was none other
Than your own.
Remember,
The pursuit
Of that which is not truly us
Renders even the most
Powerful vision useless
Recognize
When the boulder in front
Of the cave begins to shift
When that first illuminating shaft
Pierces the dark
Do not hesitate long
Do not waste time
Anticipating the griefs
Yet to come
They cannot be helped
And perhaps are necessary
On that long
And awkward walk
Towards yourself.
~Quinn Bailey, “The Only Two Directions”
Ready to get started?
Please complete the form below, and I will be in touch shortly to schedule an exploratory call.